It is true that, at any given instant when the moving twin, is moving at his cruising speed, you could claim that no such thing as absolute motion means that either twin could be considered moving.
However, this isn't a complete picture of the story. There is something unique that the twin in the rocket did, that the twin back on Earth did. And we call it, acceleration. Yes there is such a thing as absolute acceleration, as that is why you feel "heavy" against the back of your chair, when in a vehicle that is speeding up.
It will indeed be true that the twin in the rocket will have barely aged, and the twin back on Earth will have aged the most. Time slows down for the one with the greatest changes in state of motion. Special relativity alone, the equations for constant speed cases, ISN'T ENOUGH to calculate it, precisely because of the acceleration.
My favorite question to ponder about the twin paradox, is, which twin is happier, upon reuniting with his brother? I'd think I'd be happier to end up younger than someone who was originally my age, with plenty of time left to outlive them by 50 years. But, the twin in the rocket, will unfortunately be kind of lonely, in this future world to which he returns. Over half of everyone he knew in his whole life is gone. The remainder are much older, and nothing like he remembers. His much older brother, by contrast, has decades of life experience, and has met generations of people he knows and loves.