Well, it's a valid hypothesis. You should try to start figuring out how you can test it (or have others test it), since all good scientists need to be skeptical about their own ideas.
A few conceptual questions. If they're answered well, we can go on to the mathematics:
If it has to do with positive and negative charges, then are you saying that things with larger gravitational pulls (like the sun) are more charged than other things? What if something has equal numbers of positive and negative charges? Does it then not produce or feel gravity?
Is there a fundamental difference between your gravity and some electrostatic interactions?
Could you measure the pull of your gravity from the two poles of an electric cell? If the larger atom in your hypothesis pulls the smaller atom, does the smaller atom also pull the larger one? What does "larger" and "smaller" mean in this context? Is there also a _repulsive_ form of your gravity, in addition to the usual _attractive_ form? How do the concepts of mass or inertia fit into your theory?
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I'd just like to point out that the other poster brings up some interesting and valid points. However, when it's stated that "gravity acts over longer distances than electricity or magnetism", that's not true. Both gravity and electrostatic forces are 1/r^2 forces, and thus have infinite range (it also means that if they're carried by particles, then those particles cannot have any mass, and must travel at the speed of light).
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"idk i just think atoms when i think about gravity"
I like this. Bohr (arguably one of the most important developers and refiners of quantum mechanics) went the other direction, and came up with a workable model of the atom (previously, it was thought that possibly the atom was a bunch of positive and negative charge mushed together into a "plum pudding") based on orbits of one thing about another thing.
Keep daydreaming, kid, and you'll go far!
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Don't you dare give up. You'll find something that fascinates you, and it won't get out of your head. Gravity is one of those _really_ deep questions, and it's a GREAT thing that you've been told it's there, but no one has really explained it to you.
Scott (the other responder so far) has given some excellent leads as to what scientists currently think about gravity. You're in good company if you're confused: one of the unsolved problems in physics (some would say THE unsolved problem) is how to make gravity and quantum mechanics fit together.
We *think* we understand gravity (at least at macroscopic and mesoscopic length scales), and we can make very good predictions of what things will do under the influence of gravity. We also think we understand quantum mechanics (at least at macroscopic, mesoscopic, and microscopic length scales, but maybe not at *very, very* tiny scales), and can make _very_ good predictions of what things will do based on quantum theory. The big problem, though, is this: gravity and quantum mechanics don't "fit" together. They seem to be at odds with each other.
Gravity (so far) needs nice smooth spacetimes (think of it as working in only slightly wrinkled tablecloths, or in a slightly rippled trampoline, as Scott suggests). However, quantum mechanics seems to require jagged spacetime, with holes (or at least sharp steps) in it. How do we fit the two together?
You may have heard of "string theory". It's all the rage at the moment (or at least was a few years ago), and its whole purpose is to make gravity and quantum mechanics work together. So far, the prospects aren't very good.
You might just be the one to work it all out (or maybe come up with better explanations for all of it). You might also get fascinated with describing how proteins encode information in cells, or how tsunami waves can destroy coastlines, or how computer viruses mutate and propagate, or how the human brain works. It doesn't matter -- just stay curious.
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Now, Scott. You and I both know that visible light (and light of all frequencies) is a form of electromagnetic radiation. The fact that we (and photomultipliers, or CCDs, or whatever) can see the farthest galaxies -- indeed, even the cosmic background radiation -- means that the range of the electric force is infinite.
Just because the dipole field falls off faster than 1/r^2, and the quadrupole, octupole, etc. fields fall off even faster does NOT mean the monopole field falls off any faster than is required by the conservation of energy through a solid angle.
It's also true that gravity *can* be "shielded", in the same way that an oscillating electric field can be shielded: shove in a wave of the same amplitude and frequency but shift the phase by 180 deg. We certainly don't have the ability to control spacetime on that scale, but nature does, and (for example) inspiraling bodies do just this with gravitational waves. Effectively, one gets a dipole moment rather than a monopole (though the monopolar contribution is still there).