Hi Amy,
Confusing, isn’t it? Even before the C20 weirdness of relativity and the quantum atomic realm, Isaac Newton’s C17 genius was to overcome such confusion, with mathematical precision. In his honour, the SI unit of force is named the newton.
» http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Newton_(unit)
> Please try to keep it easy to understand!
You got it! May take a while, but I hope you’ll find that it’s time well spent – and there’s a Video Prize waiting at the end. :-)
THOUGHT EXPERIMENT A – EARTH
Let’s say you’re sitting on a chair, at a table, and about to push a tabletop book away from you. Typically, all this occurs in Earth’s gravity field, which pins the table, the chair, and your bare feet to the floor, pins you to the chair, and pins the book to the table.
Newton's Third Law eg#1 – the force of gravity acting downwards (doing the pinning just mentioned) is matched newton-for-newton by an equal-and-opposite force acting upwards, arising from the electromagnetic (EM) bonding forces in the solid objects and the floor. You experience this as pressure in your buttocks and the soles of your feet – as gravity tries to pull you downwards, the seat and the floor resist with an equal-and-opposite upward-directional opposing force (EM in origin): you sit still, and the competing forces compress and deform the soft tissue of your buttocks and foot soles, allowing you to FEEL Newton's Third Law at work and in action (despite your current ‘sitting still’ inaction).
Thanks to the Earth’s gravity field, for stuff to move horizontally, the force of friction between the stuff and the thing gravity is currently pinning it to must first be overcome. You push on the book, overcome the force of friction ’tween book and table, and give it some acceleration away from you.
Newton's Third Law eg#2 – not so easy to feel this time, but… as you push the book away with only the tip of one index finger, do you notice a feeling of pressure in your finger tip? It is Happening AGAIN! Your muscles use chemical potential energy (EM in origin again) from your last meal and convert it to kinetic potential energy, in pushing forcefully against the book. But friction initially holds the book in place, allowing the book to resists your push, and matching you newton-for-newton with an equal-and-opposite force acting towards you (see Fig 1 below) – the competing forces compressing and deforming the soft tissue of your fingertip, as you begin to FEEL Newton's Third Law at work and in action again.
Now since you are (usually) WAAAAY more massive than the book, the sum to the friction of (you+chair) on the floor is FAR greater than the friction ’tween book and table, giving you a sold stationary base from which to push the book away.
Newton's Third Law eg#3 – once your muscles have overcome the friction ’tween book and table, you accelerate the book away from you – and the pressure in your fingertip is STILL there… how come? To accelerate (a) the mass of the book (m) you have to continue to apply a force (F), where F = ma (ie: Newton's Second Law; plus you’ll be adding some more force to continue to overcome the on-going resistive-to-relative-motion frictional force ’tween book and table). The sum of (inertia of the book + book-table friction) meets your book-pushing-force at the finger-tip/book contact point, matching you newton-for-newton with an equal-and-opposite force acting towards you – and again, the competing forces continue to compress and deform the soft tissue of your fingertip, as you continue to FEEL Newton's Third Law at work and in action.
THOUGHT EXPERIMENT B – SPACE
OK, so now let’s get to imagine some book pushing WITHOUT an effective gravity field, and in an effectively FRICTIONLESS environment – say on a space walk outside the International Space Station with just your spacesuited body plus the book – and I hope you’ll come to agree that it’s Much Easier to Feel AND to SEE IT (in your mind’s eye, that is – like YOU get to be playing Sandra Bullock’s character in the movie ‘Gravity’). Initially, you’re stationary, relative to the ISS – then you shove the book away from you.
Newton's Third Law eg#4 – let’s say (you+spacesuit) have 100 times the mass of the book. You accelerate the book so your parting velocity sees it moving away at 1 m/s, or 1000 mm/s, relative to the ISS. You look towards the ISS, and now notice that YOU ARE MOVING TOO – in the opposite direction to the book, at 10 mm/s. The equal-and-opposite accelerative forces operating on (you+spacesuit) and the book, generated by your muscles in shoving it away, impart equal-and-opposite parting velocities on (you+spacesuit) and the book – and the ratio of your masses is matched by the ratio of your parting speeds, relative to the ISS.
Sorry it’s so long – but I hope you find it intuitively easy to feel, imagine, and understand now.
Your Prize: Listen to astronaut Gene Cernan explain how he lost 10.5 lbs in a 2 hr 05 min space walk – by failing (alongside the NASA mission planners) to take Newton's Third Law in to account! (as in my eg#4) http://youtu.be/PrJnWTcW55s • ‘Newton's Third Law of Motion: Astronauts in Outer Space’
– video, 4:50
Fig 1 – some of those equal-and-opposite forces, before the book begins to accelerate