Where to begin ...
Your history is wrong.
This was not the experiment that was used to justify QM. Einstein knew plenty about it and didn't at all believe that it disproved his idea of hidden variables (not equations). It wasn't until much much later that a man named Bell (not the telephone guy) showed that it was impossible to explain all of the things observed with local hidden variables.
The double slit experiment has never actually been done with single photons. It has been done with single electrons. We, of course, get the same basic result, but photons is much much harder to do.
Schrodinger's cat is a thought experiment by Schrodinger to show that the Copenhagen interpretation of QM is absurd. If you think that SC is crazy, then you are thinking exactly what Schrodinger wanted you to think.
Furthermore, SC wasn't just, you put a cat in a box and it is now neither alive or dead until you observe it. S linked the life of the cat to the decay of some radioactive material. He pointed out that since this was not in a state until you observed it, the cat would be neither alive nor dead until you observed it. The actual presence of the decaying nucleus is really really important to the thought experiment.
If you don't know what the Copenhagen interpretation of QM is, there really isn't a point in talking about SC since the entire purpose of it is to try to show that the CI is silly.
Also, there is no requirement for a living organism. Observer doesn't mean a living thing. It doesn't mean a person. In the experiment you mentioned, the observer is the piece of equipment that was used to make the measurement of the photon. It might be a screen that flashes when it is hit by a photon or a photo-voltaic cell, or something else, but it is not alive.
Now, let us talk about the actual science.
Let's say you were in some body of water. The ocean, a swimming pool, whatever. And you build a wall. In this wall, you cut out some sections, so that you would basically have slits (like in the double slit experiment, but much bigger). Then you had a wave approach the wall. Which slit would the wave pass through? Well it would pass through both of them of course, this is easy to test and verify and you should probably already know this.
This is what we should expect when we say that light is a wave. Like the water wave, when it hits the it passes through both slits. But when it reaches our detector, which we put a ways away from the slits, the photon (electron, proton, neutron, etc) will only be detected in one place. This is called wave particle duality. Basically it means that in certain situations objects behave like waves and in other situations they behave like particles. Some objects, a car for instance, behave like particles quite a bit of the time. Other objects, light for instance, behaves likes waves a lot of the time.
And here is the kicker, observing it can change if it behaves like a particle or a wave. For instance, when the light interacts with the slits, it behaves like a wave. When it interacts with the PV cell (who is the observer in this case) that we are using to measure it, the photon behaves like a particle.
If we much the PV cell (the observer) very closer to the slit, so that they are observing the photon right there, then we are casing the photon to behave like a particle, so now, like a particle it will pass through only one slit.
So, yes, by observing something we (PV cells, the rods and cones in our eye, other subatomic particle, anything that can interact with anything else) change the nature of something. But not really in the way you seem to think.